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I mention that an American writer wrote a cover story in the on the remarkable and exotic fact that she was in her late 30s and had never married. To them this obsession, this nagging necessity for weddings, the lack of general acceptance toward other pretty common ways of living, is so foreign, so uniquely American, such a quaint narrowness, that it’s incomprehensible as an actual mode of modern life.

At first I started fantasizing about whether I could move to a steep little Dutch house, and if I could balance a child on a bicycle.

High sex drives and also a sort of an instinct for the erotic. The Scandinavians have a reputation for being very sexual as well. But from my own personal experience, nobody quite holds up to the Dutch. Its not surprising prostitution is legal in the Netherlands, in that case. I've also noticed Dutch women tend to be very attractive and Dutch men I've heard are well endowed. Anybody else notice this or have any theories about this? van W, the Internet says Dutch men are well endowed, and I was wondering if you could comment. van W is smoking hot for 85."I've been to the Netherlands several times and also my personal experience with every Dutch person I've ever known is that they are extremely sexual.

My neighbor couple are Dutch, and are in their mid-eighties. High sex drives and also a sort of an instinct for the erotic. The Scandinavians have a reputation for being very sexual as well. But from my own personal experience, nobody quite holds up to the Dutch. Its not surprising prostitution is legal in the Netherlands, in that case. I've also noticed Dutch women tend to be very attractive and Dutch men I've heard are well endowed. Anybody else notice this or have any theories about this?

However, pure luck and a lot of practice has allowed me to forge genuine friendships with these wonderful women.

They’ve welcomed me into their country, their homes and into their hearts.

The inviting body language and lingering gaze that earned them the attention of guys back home have limited effect on Dutch males.

They look back apparently enjoying the eye contact but then mostly fail to take the logical next step – to approach and flirt a little.

A bit of tolerance, of bemusement, of compassion or imagination is built into the system.I try to describe to a couple of audiences in Amsterdam the against-the-grainness of someone, especially a woman, who has not married in America.I try to explain how having children outside of marriage is still considered an alternative, and essentially inferior life choice. It seemed like a crazy American thing for marriage to matter so much.Some forums can only be seen by registered members.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.